How to turn a house into a home

The power of personalised interiors.

There’s something truly magical about stepping into a home that feels personal and lived-in, a space that doesn’t just look good, but speaks to you. It might be the warmth of a well-worn armchair, the personality of a patterned rug, or the story behind an antique lamp. Turning a house into a home is about more than filling it with beautiful things; it’s about creating a space that reflects who you are and how you want to feel when you walk through the door.

So, how do you create that feeling? Here’s a look at how textures, colours, patterns, and cherished pieces can transform a space from “just nice” to uniquely yours.

A studio kitchen on the Mid North Coast featuring a vintage enamel sink, spanish splashback tiles and plywood cabinetry.

Why personalisation matters

Beyond the catalogue look.

Have you ever walked into a space that’s perfectly styled yet somehow feels a little… hollow? While it might check all the right design boxes, it’s missing that spark of authenticity, the kind that only you can bring.

Each of us has our own way of seeing and experiencing the world, so why should our homes look the same? A home that truly feels like yours should reflect who you are, not what a catalogue or trend suggests. As an interior designer I love working with clients to uncover those personal touches that reveal something unique about them, transforming their spaces into something genuinely one-of-a-kind. Because a home that feels real and lived-in, that captures the quirks, colours, and comforts that resonate with us, isn’t just beautiful; it’s imperfectly perfect, it’s unique.

The building blocks of “Home”

Texture, Colour, and Pattern.

Three essential ingredients, texture, colour, and pattern, work together to bring warmth, depth, and life to a home. When layered thoughtfully, they set the stage for a truly welcoming space.

Texture: Imagine the feel of a thick wool rug underfoot, a soft linen sofa, or a rustic wood coffee table. Texture adds warmth and dimension, transforming a room from flat to fabulous. Don’t be afraid to mix textures, like pairing a velvet cushion with a chunky knit throw. These subtle contrasts make spaces interesting and irresistibly cosy.

Colour: Colour sets the mood. For calm, stick to earthy tones or cool hues; for energy, try rich greens or warm terracottas. A single colour can be brought to life with interest simply by using different shades and tones across a space. For instance, in a room styled in earthy greens, try combining deep olive with sage or soft pistachio to add depth without overpowering the space. And don’t forget to use a couple of colourful items that do not fit into the scheme, this adds a tiny bit of tension to a cohesive space and makes it way more interesting.

Pattern: Patterns can bring a playful or dramatic touch. If you’re pattern-shy, start small with patterned cushions or a vintage rug. Florals, geometrics, stripes—they each bring something unique. Even layering patterns can look cohesive with the right balance. A well-chosen pattern is like the perfect spice: it adds flavour without overwhelming.

A diverse mix of texture and pattern with a muted colour palette.

Bringing in meaningful pieces

Curating objects with stories.

What are the items that make you smile, bring up memories, or speak to your journey? These pieces, whether they’re travel finds, family heirlooms, or thrifted treasures, give a home its soul.

There’s an art to displaying meaningful pieces in interior design without making a space feel cluttered. Try grouping items with similar colours or themes, like framing old postcards, arranging vintage bottles, or creating a gallery wall with personal photos. Even if your treasures are eclectic, grouping them with intention creates a cohesive look that still feels very “you.”

Inviting comfort

Furniture, lighting, and layout.

At its heart, a home should be comfortable. This means choosing furniture that feels good to sit on and arranging it in a way that flows naturally.

Furniture: Prioritise comfort over trend. That armchair with a well-worn seat cushion? It’s probably there for a reason! Think about getting it re upholstered or freshen it up with throws or new cushions. Thrifting and vintage shopping is also fantastic for finding unique, budget-friendly pieces that add both function and flair.

Lighting: Lighting is another game-changer. A mix of ambient (overhead), task (like reading lamps), and accent lighting (candles or fairy lights) makes a room feel layered and inviting. Where a stunning pendant light from a showroom can be the hero in your space; a simple well-placed floor lamp together with that little vintage table light you took from your dad’s garage are going to be a fantastic combination to mix up your lighting.

Layout: Arrange your furniture so it encourages conversation and connection. Even in a small space, a slight rearrangement can make a room feel more inviting. Consider using a couch and an armchair instead of a huge lounge setting for more flexibility and a little diversity. Aim for flow, but don’t be afraid to cosy things up—sometimes a little snugness adds to the warmth!

A side table turned vanity, vintage mirror and lights make this bathroom in Bellingen, NSW as unique as its owner.

Layering the final touches

Small details with big impact.

The final touches are what make a house feel like home. It’s the basket with your favourite throw near the couch, that vintage vase you found at a flea market or the pile of gemstones you’ve collected over the years.

Cushions & Throws: These add both comfort and style, especially when they’re in colours or patterns you love. You can swap them out seasonally to keep things fresh without breaking the bank, have some custom cushion covers made from that fabric you bought in Peru or turn an old tapestry into a statement piece.

Artwork & Decor: Wall art, small sculptures, or decorative plates can give a room personality. Mix family photos with favourite pieces of art or little mementos that make you smile. Explore your local craft fair and student exhibitions to find unique pieces that match your aesthetic.

Mirrors: Adding mirrors to your interior can not only make the space feel bigger but create an inviting atmosphere full of layers and depth. A mirror half hidden by the beautiful monstera you’ve got on shelf will reflect its gorgeous pattern and leafy texture and add a sophisticated mood to the room.

Creating a home that feels like you isn’t about perfection; it’s about making choices that bring you joy and comfort. By layering textures, adding colours, embracing patterns, and curating pieces that tell your story, you’re building a home that resonates deeply with you. And ultimately, a home that makes you happy is the most beautiful home of all.

Until next time.

Vera x